Yesterday I saw an obese older guy bicycling away from the supermarket which is by the expressway. I was getting off the expressway and saw this fat guy in his fifties wearing a backpack peddling as slow as mollasses with a couple of grocery bags on the back of his bike. The poor guy was huffing and puffing and his face was bright red as he peddled his bike. The bike's tires were so flat to the ground that it looked like he was riding the rims. Now when the light is green people get off this expressway like they were bats out of hell. The road I was getting onto is a main boulevard where the speed limit is 45 mph (72 kilometers per hour) and everyone is usually driving at least 50 mph (80 kph) or more. I guess everyone likes to risk their life sometimes?
A couple of weeks ago I was driving with my family to a wedding. I was driving about forty miles an hour on a street where the speed limit was thirty five. I was driving east on the right hand lane. It was a four lane street (two lanes in each direction). I was about half a block away when some old guy started to cross the street on left (north) sidewalk, four lanes away. I presumed he would wait in the middle of the street before crossing all the way. I was wrong. As he got to the middle of the four lane street, he actually took a jump-step and made a dash across the road. I was about twenty feet away from this old guy when he started running. I immediately began applying the brakes on my car. When he was right in front of my car, he tripped. The poor old guy fell head first across the front of my car, and I had to jump on the brakes and swerve into the middle of the road to avoid running over the poor guy. This all happened in a matter of seconds.
I stopped the car, and got out along with my family. We ran over to help the guy up. He had skinned his elbow and it was bleeding. He was shaking from the shock. I guess he thought he was a goner. I bet his life flashed before his eyes. He looked at me with that look of astonishment. I bet he was surprised to be alive. He apologized to me for falling in front of the car, and I apologized to him for not driving slower. I think we were both feeling some awe and gratitude to God that all he had was a skinned elbow. I asked him to feel his arms and legs and make sure nothing was broken. He did, and everything was fine (though I bet he was sore the next day).
The guy said he was seventy four years old. We all thanked God he was alright. He wanted to keep on going because he had to go pick up a prescription at the local pharmacy. He was trembling from the fright. We persuaded him to go home and catch his breath and take care of his skinned elbow. After a couple of minutes, he regained his composure and walked back across the street to his home. The old guy was very nice, and I felt really bad. If I had been going slower, maybe he would not have felt like he had to run across the road? We spend so much time in a rush, that rushing everywhere seems to be normal all the time. I guess we are all rushing around because life is so short? Then when we try to go slow everyone else is rushing by us. Whenever I drive at the speed limit (65 mph/104 kph) on the expressway, all the cars are zipping by as if I was standing still.
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July 23, 2007
Deathwish?
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Thank goodness for both your sakes it wasn't more serious. I have hit someone (many years ago and their fault) and it was a horrible experience.
It's a mad, mad world we live in,I think if we all took some time be to a bit more mindful, we would enjoy life better.
I too have run over a pedestrian, only I did it deliberately, no damage to him, just his ego... he messed with the wrong woman that day for sure! I am not nice, did I ever tell you that? Glad your pedestrian was not badly hurt. My wee boy loved the video of the car crashes, typical boy!
A big shake up to everyone involved... I have been luck and havent wiped anyone out... but I have felt like it at times!!!
well done for making sure he was alrught before going on your way...
The super obese do have one advantage. If they are hit by a car they have more stopping power!!!
Jeff
I watched the Beach Boy montage with my husband - he watched all of those F1 crashes on TV - no one was killed amazingly.
Let's hear the rest of the story, Chris H!
Larry
Scary crashes! Glad to hear that old man was alright, scary. I realize what a fragile world we live in as I heard of an aquaintance who was in a bad crash in Idaho and it critical condition and all 3 kids killed. Not sure why I shared that, just that things can happen in an instant and makes you treasure what you have even more.
Wow - that's some story. I'm glad all he got was a bit scraped up. It's important to pay attention when you're driving, and in doing so, I think you probably saved his life.
Cas
wow sorry that happened I am sure you were both shook up. Thank goodness he was ok. I agree with you about driving. I too it seems am always in a hurry to get somewhere. I miss the slower pace of days gone by. I can't figure out why it is so fast paced these days...but it certainly is!
It is scary when you get these incidents, you certainly don't have to look for accidents.
Just be grateful the man was alright apart from a skinned elbow that will heal.
Hmmm...and I don't even live in FL. Of course, I don't use my bike to go to the grocery store.
Well, I DO live in Florida - in a town with THREE institutions of "higher" learning. So our population is skewed towards the 18-24 age group much of the year. I absolutely LOVE summer/spring break/winter holidays when all the racing wanna-be's go home or off to the beach to kill each other there....
That old man is lucky YOU were the driver of the car he was crossing in front of!
Gainesville? Tallahassee? I have been to both universities for visits, and they are pretty wild places.
People can be such idiots, ok..assholes when they get behind the wheel.
It just sucks that our society thinks speed is the answer no matter the cost.
Whew! What a close call. You know for sure that somebody had to be looking out for both of you that day.
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Oh my goodness! how frightening! But doesn't it make you wonder sometimes, how a person that would walk out in front of a car got to be so old? =0p
I wonder if there are some older folks who feel like they have to push their luck and/or fate in order to see if God is still on their side?? They want to put their life in the hands of God. Not sure if I am explaining what I mean??
The guy on the bike had probably lost his liscence or something, and had no choice.
People get careless on roads all the time. It doesn't matter how fast or slow you are going, people always like to play chicken in traffic!
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